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CHAP. LV. p. 267. MARRIAGE CUSTOM. 59
the two arrange a grand wedding between the dead lad and lass. And
marry them they do, making a regular contract ! And when the
contract papers are made out they put them in the fire, in order (as
they will have it) that the parties in the other world may know the fact,
and so look on each other as man and wife. And the parents thence-
forward consider themselves sib to each other, just as if their children
had lived and married. Whatever may be agreed on between the
parties as dowry, those who have to pay it cause to be painted on
pieces of paper and then put these in the fire, saying that in that way
the dead person will get all the real articles in the other world."
Mr. KUMAGUSU MINAKATA writes on the subject in Nature,
Jan. 7, 1897, pp. 224--5 :
" As it is not well known whether or not there is a record of
this strange custom earlier than the beginning of the dynasty of
Yuen, I was in doubt whether it was originally common to the
Chinese and Tartars until I lately came across the following
passage in Tsoh-mung-luk (Brit. Mus. copy, 15297, a I, fol.
I I-12), which would seem to decide the question--' In the North
there is this custom. When a youth and a girl of marriageable
ages die before marriage, their families appoint a match-maker
to negotiate their nuptials, whom they call " Kwei-mei " (i.e.
" Match-Maker of Ghosts "). Either family hands over to another
a paper noticing all pre-requisites concerning the affair ; and by
names of the parents of the intended couple asks a man to pray
and divine ; and if the presage tells that the union is a lucky one,
clothes and ornaments are made for the deceased pair. Now
the match-maker goes to the burying-ground of the bridegroom,
and, offering wine and fruits, requests the pair to marry. There
two seats are prepared on adjoining positions, either of which
having behind it a small banner more than a foot long. Before
the ceremony is consecrated by libation, the two banners remain
hanging perpendicularly and still ; but when the libation is
sprinkled and the deceased couple are requested to marry, the
banners commence to gradually approach till they touch one
another, which shows that they are both glad of the wedlock.
However, when one of them dislikes another, it would happen that
the banner representing the unwilling party does not move to
approach the other banner. In case the couple should die too
young to understand the matter, a dead man is appointed as a
tutor to the male defunct, and some effigies are made to serve as
the instructress and maids to the female defunct. The dead
tutor thus nominated is informed of his appointment by a paper
offered to him, on which are inscribed his name and age. After
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